You think jealousy means you're not cut out for non-monogamy. Non-monogamy coach Ellecia Paine is here to change your mind.

Ellecia spent 13 years in a monogamous marriage, came out the other side knowing she never wanted that again, and built a coaching practice and podcast helping people navigate ethical non-monogamy, polyamory, open relationships, and swinging. In this conversation, we get honest about what it actually takes to open a relationship without blowing it up, and why most of the challenges people face aren't what they think they are.

What we cover:

• The main styles of ethical non-monogamy and what actually sets them apart

• Why jealousy isn't a disqualifier... it's just an emotion that needs tools

• How shame was designed to keep us small (and how to start moving through it)

• The confidence and self-worth stuff that surfaces the moment you open a relationship

• Baby steps for anyone curious about non-monogamy but not sure where to start

• Why knowing yourself intimately (yes, that kind of intimately) is the foundation of everything

Relationship Coach Ellecia Paine helps adventurous people break the social conditioning of monogamy and learn how to navigate healthy alternative relationship styles such as ethical non-monogamy, open relationships, polyamory and swinging. She helps them move through the challenges like jealousy, fear, anxiety, and insecurities in a way that strengthens their relationships, deepens trust and communication, and leaves them feeling confident. 

As the host of the podcast Nope! We're Not Monogamous, Ellecia believes in courageously challenging the status quo and empowering people to create relationships that work for the real people in those relationships. Throughout the past 10 years living in an ethically non-monogamous relationship while working as a sex, love, and relationship coach, Ellecia has acquired valuable insight and a unique ability to share this information with her clients and audience in a way that hits home while leaving them feeling validated and whole. 

Visit Ellecia at: ElleciaPaine.com
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Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/@elleciapaine
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In this episode we mentioned:
The Ethical Slut by Janet Hardy and Dossie Easton
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