I’m super glad you got this far! It’s hard to look for help, and I want to acknowledge that. I respect you for doing so. And, I’m guessing what you really want to know is if I can help you and if we will work well together. You might also be a bit nosy and want to know who I am? (I am a lot nosy. 😉) Conveniently, it’s useful here. It helps make me a good coach, and I have learned to keep it in check. Will I be a good coach for you, is a question only you can answer. Shall we find out?
I have been helping people learn more about themselves, work through confusing situations and thoughts, gain techniques, skills, and information, and communicate better with their partners since 2017 and I love it!!!
Portraits by Britten Leigh
I spent many years feeling shame and confusion because of my ‘proclivities.’ I was alone with no one to talk to, I thought there was something wrong with me. This was at the very beginning of the internet and most of the other people I found were not helpful. It doesn’t need to be like that. You are ok, I promise! And I’d be honored to help you feel that way too.
When I realized I could do this as a profession, I trained with Sex Coach U. Since 2017, I have been coaching couples and individuals in person, phone, video, and chat. I have had the opportunity to teach teens and adults at various schools and conventions. I love to learn as much as I love to teach. I completed the Urban Tantra professional program and continue to work with other sex geeks. I was one of the first sex coaches anywhere working via text message when I was a part of the start-up company Juicebox, a dedicated sexual educational and direct coaching app (unfortunately, no longer operating).
I am queer, polyamorous, and kinky. I can hold space for you. I have the personal and professional experience and knowledge, as well as the understanding you need to guide you through your concerns. And if I don’t, I can help you find someone who does.
Now for the fun nosy bits… I am honestly going through a bit of transition myself. I just turned 50 (yes, I am gen-x), and am moving out of full-time mama-ing and refiguring out me-ing. I am a giant A/V nerd with a huge record collection, beta tapes, and more (that is my typewriter on the blog page). I’m an artist and a crafter, I have a side-hustle selling curated bead collections and beads with one of my very best friends from college. I tend to take care of things like plants and children’s ex-pets. My fandoms include Doctor Who, the Muppets, and many many musicals. I love old stuff and genealogy and used to own a vintage shop in an old church where I sold both. I grew up being on and producing radio, starting at age 2, meaning we moved a lot. I lived in Vermont for 30 years, and now that my kids have mostly grown, I’m happy in Brooklyn.
This is Wesley, he wants to be famous so he posed for exposure - 🥰