A 12 week path to more pleasure & renewed intimacy
More Joy and Pleasure help every part of you
feel better, rest better, and work better!
Maybe you feel disconnected from your body. Maybe the weight of the world is getting to you. Maybe you recall having a libido but it’s been so long, you have no idea what even turns you on anymore.
Maybe things are fine... but "fine" isn't what you're here for.
Maybe you know there is still a piece of you that is a badass, but don’t know where they are hiding.
Wherever you are now, more pleasure, more intimacy, more of yourself, whether you're exploring solo or with a partner, will make things easier, more fun, and lead to you manifesting all you desire.
Hi, I’m Gwyn.
I know intimately how ditching the shame and prioritizing your pleasure changes how you show up in the world, more confident, more you in every room, not just the bedroom.
Since 2017 I’ve been working with folks to cultivate deeper intimacy, bring more fun back into their relationships with partners and playmates, and feel genuinely good in their bodies. I bring my professional training as a certified clinical sexologist aka sex coach to your unique journey, because life gets better overall when pleasure comes first.
I’ve developed the SHINE™️framework to help you enjoy all the delicious satisfaction you want.
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SHINE will help you:
Shed - release what you don’t need
Home - center yourself and get present for the moment
Invite - know and ask for what you would like
Notice - be aware of what is feeling good
Expand - Let those feelings and every other aspect in your life grow
Enjoying more of life, is the best and most satisfying path to getting everything you want, including more physical pleasure!
It’s a wonderful self fulfilling cycle of feeling good leading to more feeling good!
SHINE is not a “normal” coaching program
It is a message based ongoing safe container to explore parts of yourself in deep conversation
In 12 weeks we will address how to:
Stop performing “because you should”
Reconnect with what actually feels good in your body
Be able to name and ask for what you want
Practice savoring pleasure, and enjoy how much more of it you have
Use that joyous energy to supercharge the rest of your life!
What Clients have said:
Gwyn has been a huge help in helping me identify and work through my own insecurities, explore sexually with and without my partner, and understand when and how to advocate for myself in my relationship - Olivia
Working with you been the most effective and efficient path through the tangled weeds of this long ignored mess of my love life, thank you. - Stacy
You are so kind and compassionate! Issues that I had built up to be BIG things because of my fears around ‘if they are ok’ were handled gently and without judgment and just that piece meant so much to me. Then you helped me feel better about them and wow, my whole life just feels better. AND sexy times are amazing! - Esme
So how does this actually work?
SHINE is fully async. You message me, in whatever mode you prefer, email, what’s app, video calls, etc. as often as you want, whenever you want, on the train, in bed, after the kids are asleep… No need to filter yourself. I can hold all of it. It helps to get the thoughts get out of your head and create the context for what is happening in your life.
This means no calls, no calendar Tetris, no sitting in a Zoom window trying to perform openness on command at 6pm on a Tuesday because that's the only slot we both had.
I sit with your messages, sort it, and respond with what's actually useful, 3 times a week, within 48 hours of your first message.
What that means for you:
You get let it happen in real time, instead of forgetting the thing you actually wanted to say last week when it was bothering you.
Nothing has to happen on a schedule that isn't yours.
You can go back and reread (or listen or watch) the responses whenever you need them, they don't disappear when the call ends. For my peeps who don’t love journaling this is amazing to use to see how far you’ve come
It fits into your actual life instead of asking you to build your life around it.
You don't have to have it together to send a message, no camera, no put-together voice, no waiting until you can explain it clearly. Send the 2am voice memo, the rambling text, the half formed thoughts. Your whole being is allowed and valued here.
Everything you send me stays between us! I don’t share any information about my clients ever, even with people who work for me. Every message stays as private as if you'd whispered it to me in a cone of silence.
For many people, this form of coaching helps release the vulnerability freeze, so the real stuff comes out easier and feels safer
Everyone who starts SHINE begins in a different place. Some arrive numb, some arrive curious, some arrive just tired of performing.
Your journey through it, and what more pleasure actually looks like for you, won't look like anyone else's.
Wherever you're starting from, the powerhouse underneath it all is in there. This is how you find them again! (Even if you barely remember them.)
But I am 1000% confident that it will change more than you think possible!
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No. I'm a Certified Clinical Sexologist, not a licensed therapist, and SHINE is coaching, not clinical treatment. If you're working through trauma, a mental health diagnosis, or something that needs clinical support, this can absolutely work alongside therapy, but it's not a replacement for it.
If you are already working with a therapist, I am happy to coordinate with them. -
Yes. Everything you send me stays between us!
As in You and Me. Period.
Not with employees, not with other providers, no names used in case studies without your explicit yes.
No exceptions.
If there is a sticky issue that I would like feedback from a colleague, I will ask permission from you to share only what is needed to get a second opinion. -
Absolutely not!
This is a common misconception. There are a few sex coaches who work that way, most of us are talk based.
In fact if you try to force me to watch I will cancel our service and keep your money. -
This isn't the space for that, and I want to be honest about it rather than pretend otherwise.
If you're in crisis, please reach out to a crisis line or a licensed provider who can be there with you in real time.SHINE is for deep, ongoing work... not emergencies.
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You message me anytime, however you want to show up, voice memo, rambling text, whatever's real.
I message you back 3 times a week, on WhatsApp, Signal, or email, your choice of whichever feels right for you.
No calls, no performing openness on a schedule, no calendar needed.
You get to release what you need to say when you need to. -
Well, I certainly want you to share your journey with them, if that’s what you want. It can be very helpful to have that personal support.
But coaching 2 people on one account doesn’t work well in this style of coaching. -
Whatever feels most comfortable to you... Signal, WhatsApp, Marco Polo, Telegram or email all work. Signal is the most private if that matters to you.
The most important piece is an app you are comfortable with and check regularly.
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You are not alone!
That's the starting point for many people. Lots of folks just know what they aren’t enjoying. You don't need to arrive knowing your desires already, we can uncover that together. -
Try the first week. If it's not landing for you by the end of it, you get a full refund, no hard feelings.
I've coached people go from never letting themselves consider what they desire... to asking for it regularly, out loud, and loving it.
I've coached people to learn how to make love to themselves, so they can teach their partners.
I've coached people to stop hating their bodies and start living in them with love.
I've coached folks who worried about how they look to leaving the lights on during sex and sharing sexy images.
I've coached people trace the shame back to where it came from... and finally set it down, so they can embrace their whole selves without judgement.
I've coached people from feeling invisible to walking into a room knowing exactly who they are.
I personally come from sexual shame and trauma, low self esteem and always putting myself last. For Decades. Now, life is amazing, I enjoy so much more than just my sex life, and it just keeps getting better.
If you don’t see your concern here, reach out. I can help, or I can refer you to a colleague. You don’t need to suffer!!!
It is possible for you too!
If you are ready to Shine
I would love to work with you and help you step into your desires, pleasures, and the power that comes with it!
A 12-week async coaching container to shed the performance, come home to your body, and lead with desire in every part of your life. 3 replies per week, woven around the SHINE method: Shed, Home, Invite, Notice, Expand.
A payment plan of 4 months at 25% is available no extra charge
Click the view options button to begin today!
Money back Guarantee - try it for a week.
Start SHINE. Let the first week actually land in your body before you decide anything.
If by the end of that first week you don’t think it’s for you, you get a full refund.
If you would rather talk to me first, I get that too, send me an email