There is no shame here!

What the f*** is sex coaching?

Well, It is not watching or touching and giving notes! I am a discussion based coach who views the process as a partnership with you. We will work together to determine the best way to address your concerns, judgement free. I have worked with lots of folks who identify in a variety of orientations and genders to help them create more authentic connections with themselves and their partners.

Text based or email coaching is available now!

Like in-person/phone/video coaching without the pressure to figure it all out and take it all in during the session, with the added advantage of being able to go back and re-read the journal. Because the conversation unfolds daily, there is more time to let ideas take hold and fully form. Many people also find that anonymity makes it easier to discuss challenging issues.
To learn more about how this works, please read this article in Bustle, which features a conversation between the author and me.

There are two options, which one suits you best?

Continuing Conversation

$69 a week

A continuing conversation, where you write as much and as often as you like, and Gwyn responds once a day, 7 days a week, with reflections, ideas, questions, and the occasional homework (almost always fun stuff). This is billed weekly.


If you are unhappy after 2 days of working together you may ask for a full refund.

Please email gwyn@earthlydesire.com to get started

Live Texting Session

$57. for 45 minutes

A scheduled texting session where we plan to have a conversation in real-time via texting, either with SMS (your phone), Skype, Slack, or Facebook. This can be in conjunction with, or independent of an ongoing conversation.

Phone or Video Coaching

To join the waiting list for this, please choose one of the above options. It is better for both of us to have a working relationship before talking ‘in person’.

If you are already approved, please schedule here.

***If you are not approved I will cancel your session - with a fee!***