SHINE
A 12 week path to more pleasure & renewed intimacy
Enjoying more of life, is the best and most satisfying path to getting everything you want, including more physical pleasure!
It’s a wonderful self fulfilling cycle of feeling good leading to more feeling good!
Because everyone gets to feel like this!
Maybe you feel disconnected from your body. Maybe the weight of the world is getting to you. Maybe you recall having a libido but it’s been so long, you have no idea what even turns you on anymore.
Maybe things are fine... but "fine" isn't what you're here for.
Wherever you are now, you're allowed to want more pleasure, more intimacy, more of yourself, whether you're exploring solo or with a partner.
Hi, I’m Gwyn.
I know intimately how ditching the shame and prioritizing your pleasure changes how you show up in the world.
Since 2017 I’ve been working with folks to cultivate deeper intimacy, bring more fun back into their relationships with partners and playmates, and feel genuinely good in their bodies. I bring my professional training as a certified clinical sexologist aka sex coach to your unique journey, because life gets better overall when pleasure comes first.
I’ve developed the SHINE™️framework to help you enjoy all the delicious satisfaction you want.
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SHINE will help you
Shed - release what you don’t need
Home - center yourself and get present for the moment
Invite - know and ask for what you would like
Notice - be aware of what is feeling good
Expand - those feeling to grow - and so much more
SHINE is not a “normal” coaching program
It is a message based ongoing safe container to explore parts of yourself in deep conversation
In 12 weeks we will address how to:
Stop performing “because you should”
Reconnect with what actually feels good in your body
Be able to name and ask for what you want
Practice savoring pleasure, and enjoy how much more of it you have
Use that joyous energy to supercharge the rest of your life!
What Clients have said:
Gwyn has been a huge help in helping me identify and work through my own insecurities, explore sexually with and without my partner, and understand when and how to advocate for myself in my relationship - Olivia
Working with you been the most effective and efficient path through the tangled weeds of this long ignored mess of my love life, thank you. - Stacy
You are so kind and compassionate! Issues that I had built up to be BIG things because of my fears around ‘if they are ok’ were handled gently and without judgment and just that piece meant so much to me. Then you helped me feel better about them and wow, my whole life just feels better. AND sexy times are amazing! - Esme
So how does this actually work?
SHINE is fully async. You message me, in whatever mode you prefer, email, what’s app, video calls, etc. as often as you want, whenever you want, on the train, in bed, after the kids are asleep… No need to filter yourself. I can hold all of it. It helps to get the thoughts get out of your head and create the context for what is happening in your like.
This means no calls, no calendar Tetris, no sitting in a Zoom window trying to perform openness on command at 6pm on a Tuesday because that's the only slot we both had.
I sit with your messages, sort it, and respond with what's actually useful, 3 times a week, within 48 hours of your first message.
What that means for you:
You get let it happen in real time, instead of forgetting the thing you actually wanted to say last week when it was bothering you.
Nothing has to happen on a schedule that isn't yours.
You can go back and reread (or listen or watch) the responses whenever you need them, they don't disappear when the call ends. For my peeps who don’t love journaling this is amazing to use to see how far you’ve come
It fits into your actual life instead of asking you to build your life around it.
You don't have to have it together to send a message, no camera, no put-together voice, no waiting until you can explain it clearly. Send the 2am voice memo, the rambling text, the half formed thoughts. Your whole being is allowed and valued here..
Everything you send me stays between us! I don’t share any information about my clients ever, even with people who work for me. Every message stays as private as if you'd whispered it to me in a cone of silence.
For many people, this form of coaching helps release the vulnerability freeze, so the real stuff comes out easier and feels safer
Everyone who starts SHINE begins in a different place. Some arrive numb, some arrive curious, some arrive just tired of performing.
Your journey through it, and what more pleasure actually looks like for you, won't look like anyone else's.
But I am 100% confident that it will change more than you expect!
For instance:
I've coached people go from never letting themselves consider what they desire... to asking for it regularly, out loud, and having it.
I've coached people to learn how to make love to themselves, so they can teach their partners.
I've coached people to stop hating their bodies and start living in them with love.
I've coached folks who worried about how they look to start leaving the lights on during sex.
I've coached people trace the shame back to where it came from... and finally set it down, and embrace their whole selves without judgement.
It is possible for you too!
If you are ready to Shine
I would love to work with you and help you enjoy the sex life of your dreams!
A 12-week async coaching container to shed the performance, come home to your body, and lead with desire in every part of your life. 3 replies per week, woven around the SHINE method: Shed, Home, Invite, Notice, Expand.
A payment plan of 4 months at 25% is available no extra charge
Click the view options button to begin today!
Money back Guarantee - try it for a week.
Start SHINE. Let the first week actually land in your body before you decide anything.
If by the end of that first week you don’t think it’s for you, you get a full refund.
If you would rather talk to me first, I get that too, send me an email