Hey there Gorgeous… let’s get real for a second.

Somewhere along the line, you were taught to shrink. To be “fine.”
To be grateful for crumbs while ignoring the quiet ache inside you whispering, I want more… I deserve more.

You didn’t lose your desire because something is broken in you.
You lost it because life got loud, demanding, and relentless.

No one ever taught you (us) how to listen for your wants underneath the noise.

This book is your permission slip.
Your coming home map.

A warm, grounded, slightly sassy reminder that you can reconnect with yourself at any moment that feels right for you.

Pleasure isn’t a luxury:

It’s nourishment.
It’s connection.
It’s confidence.
It’s a compass pointing you back to yourself.

You don’t have to earn it, perform it, or explain why you want it.
You only have to learn how to receive it again…

…and that’s exactly what this guide walks you through, one loving, grounded chapter at a time.

This isn’t a sex-tips list. Sex is barely mentioned.
This isn’t a performance guide.
This isn’t “just relax,” “buy lingerie,” or get a “mani pedi” view of pleasure

This is a coming-home journey for your nervous system, your pleasure, and your identity. Perfect for women (and those raised to be, no matter your orientation, or if you aren’t even interested in physical intimate pleasure.

Inside you’ll find:

• trauma-informed practices
• somatic wisdom
• gentle humor
• real-talk coaching
• shame-free guidance
• a warm, conversational voice that feels like a friend on the couch

This guide walks beside you as you move from numbness to nourishment.

From confusion to clarity, from silence to that soft, steady yes inside your own body.
It is not about performing a new identity. It is about remembering the one that has been waiting under all the noise.

Reconnect With Yourself:
You will learn how to stop assuming you are broken and start understanding the very real reasons your desire went quiet.
You will unlearn the constant “shoulds” that have been stealing your joy and reconnect with the messages your body has been trying to send you for years.

Rebuild Confidence and Boundaries:
You will uncover how to say yes and no from a place of clarity instead of fear.
You will explore consent as an act of self love rather than something you owe anyone.
You will practice receiving in ways that feel safe, steady, and honest.

Create Real Intimacy:
You will come back into your body through presence, not pressure.
You will learn how to ask for what you want in a way that feels real and empowering.
You will let pleasure become a daily anchor instead of a rare moment you hope for.

A Clear Path Back to Yourself:
Through gentle, practical exercises, reflection prompts, and compassionate guidance, you will build a relationship with your desire that feels grounded, nourishing, and completely your own.

• You feel disconnected from desire

• You’re tired of being everyone’s emotional support animal

• You want confidence without having to pretend you have it

• You crave clarity around what you actually want

• You want intimacy that nourishes, not drains

• You’re a recovering good girl, perfectionist, or people-pleaser

• You want a trauma-informed, inclusive guide written by a real human, in a conversational tone, not like a textbook, or a fluffy magazine article.

There comes a moment when the old way of living no longer fits. The shrinking, the silence, the smiling through it while something inside you whispers for more. If you are here, reading this, you already feel that moment in your body.

Permission to Want is an invitation to step into something fuller.
More honest.
More grounded.
More alive.

This book does not rush you or push you. It simply meets you where you are and walks with you toward a version of yourself that feels real. Pleasure becomes possible again. Wanting becomes allowed again. You become someone who trusts her own yes.

If something inside you is leaning forward even a little, follow that. You deserve a life that feels like yours!!!

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