
Dirty Lola is an award-winning sex edutainer, speaker, and self-proclaimed dildo slinger. Known for her live sex ed, Q&A show Sex Ed A Go-Go, and as a Sexpert on the Netflix docuseries The Principles of Pleasure, Lola has spent over a decade working to end the stigma and shame surrounding sex and sexuality.
Having started her journey sharing personal discoveries with polyamory and kink online, Lola now uses her knowledge, warm candor, and public platforms to teach the masses in person and rapt Internet and television audiences.
In addition to her educational projects, Lola is the creative director of the Spectrum Journal, an online magazine offshoot of the female-owned online sex shop Spectrum Boutique, on the advisory board for the Youth Sexpert Program, and has brought her unique brand of sex-positive sex education to brands such as Shag in Williamsburg BK, B-Vibe, Freya, Womanizer, and Spencers Gifts.

Tangible Tips For Love and Pleasure From A Dildo Slinger
On Day 5 on the Reclaiming You summit Gwyn chats with Dirty Lola, an award-winning sex expert and edutainer.
Known for her Sex Ed A Go-Go shows, which blend Q&A, comedy, and variety, Lola brings humor, honesty, and practical advice to the complex world of sex and relationships.
In this session, Lola shares tips on building self-esteem, navigating love, and choosing the right sex toys. Learn how to improve your sexual experiences, explore third spaces, and embrace safer sex practices.
Whether you're curious about buying a new toy, communication, keeping the spark alive, or finding love, Lola's wealth of knowledge will leave you inspired and better equipped to enjoy a fulfilling love life.
Chapter timestamps and links below
00:00 Introduction to Dirty Lola
01:14 Sex Ed A Go-Go: A Unique Variety Show
03:36 Top Questions in Sex and Relationships
06:50 Finding Love: Practical Advice
15:33 Building Self-Esteem and Confidence
24:46 Exploring Sex Toys: A Beginner's Guide
27:42 Exploring Toy Preferences and Usage
28:23 Considering Physical Abilities and Preferences
29:20 Budget and Price Range Considerations
30:02 Material and Toy Types
31:33 Personalized Recommendations and Experiences
32:10 Challenges with Popular Toys
39:27 Shopping Alternatives to Amazon
46:20 Importance of Lube and Barrier Methods
52:34 Final Thoughts and Encouragement

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