Dirty Lola is an award-winning sex edutainer, speaker, and self-proclaimed dildo slinger. Known for her live sex ed, Q&A show Sex Ed A Go-Go, and as a Sexpert on the Netflix docuseries The Principles of Pleasure, Lola has spent over a decade working to end the stigma and shame surrounding sex and sexuality.

Having started her journey sharing personal discoveries with polyamory and kink online, Lola now uses her knowledge, warm candor, and public platforms to teach the masses in person and rapt Internet and television audiences.

In addition to her educational projects, Lola is the creative director of the  Spectrum Journal, an online magazine offshoot of the female-owned online sex shop Spectrum Boutique, on the advisory board for the Youth Sexpert Program, and has brought her unique brand of sex-positive sex education to brands such as Shag in Williamsburg BK, B-Vibe, Freya, Womanizer, and Spencers Gifts.

 


Tangible Tips For Love and Pleasure From A Dildo Slinger

On Day 5 on the Reclaiming You summit Gwyn chats with Dirty Lola, an award-winning sex expert and edutainer.

Known for her Sex Ed A Go-Go shows, which blend Q&A, comedy, and variety, Lola brings humor, honesty, and practical advice to the complex world of sex and relationships.

In this session, Lola shares tips on building self-esteem, navigating love, and choosing the right sex toys. Learn how to improve your sexual experiences, explore third spaces, and embrace safer sex practices.

Whether you're curious about buying a new toy, communication, keeping the spark alive, or finding love, Lola's wealth of knowledge will leave you inspired and better equipped to enjoy a fulfilling love life.

Chapter timestamps and links below


00:00 Introduction to Dirty Lola

01:14 Sex Ed A Go-Go: A Unique Variety Show

03:36 Top Questions in Sex and Relationships

06:50 Finding Love: Practical Advice

15:33 Building Self-Esteem and Confidence

24:46 Exploring Sex Toys: A Beginner's Guide

27:42 Exploring Toy Preferences and Usage

28:23 Considering Physical Abilities and Preferences

29:20 Budget and Price Range Considerations

30:02 Material and Toy Types

31:33 Personalized Recommendations and Experiences

32:10 Challenges with Popular Toys

39:27 Shopping Alternatives to Amazon

46:20 Importance of Lube and Barrier Methods

52:34 Final Thoughts and Encouragement

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